So, Tim’s caseworker emails that she wants to have a family session by phone to talk about what happened the Wednesday before Thanksgiving. I know, I’m repeating myself, but that’s where today’s freak out (on my part) starts.
I set up a time with her for tomorrow, and off-handledly mentioned in my email that they usually don’t go well, because Tim doesn’t like it when we talk about him when he’s there. She said that Tim had said that as well (which I think is great insight for Tim).
Then she went on about how he needs to understand the different rules and expectations between “school” and home and how he can “behave” better at home, like he does at school.
I went bona fide ape shit on her, in email, which isn’t good. But she’s Tim’s third caseworker in 18 months and I get freakin’ sick and tired of these 12 year old, just out of grad school, haven’t ever seen a kid with psychosis before numbskulls telling me that my kid is just fine there, he just acts out at home.
Here’s verbatim what I emailed.